“Men are the rulers over women because Allah has bestowed ranks to some of them above others and because they (men) spend of their wealth (for the maintenance of women).” (Surah Nisaa’, Aayat 34) In describing the man, Allah Ta’ala in this aayat, mentions the word qawwamoon which is the …
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General Guidance for the Muslim Wife: It is essential that the Muslim woman understands that of all people, be it parents or children, her husband commands her firstand has the highest allegiance. He is the pivot of her salvation in both worlds. He is her ruler, guard and guardian here …
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Every enjoyable thing is beloved to man. The meaning of beloved, is that the heart is inclined towards it. When this inclination becomes very intense, then this is referred to as ishq. The meaning of hatred, is when the heart of man is disinclined from something, since it causes distress …
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Extracted From ‘For Friends’- A Discourse From Hadhrat Moulana Maseehullah Khan Saheb رحمه الله Among those related and close to one, that person who is closest and has the highest degree of intimacy is one’s wife. On the basis of what has been said, how can one be desirous of …
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Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives”. [At-Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith …
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1. Accept your in-laws as your own parents. You have them to thank for the wonderful man who has become your life partner 2. Don’t compare them to your parents as to show your spouse how inadequate his parents are 3. If your in laws give a gift, appreciate it …
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The article below is extracted from ‘The Shari’ah’ newspaper, the front page 10 years ago but very much applicable: Assalamu-Aalykum wa Rahmatullahi wabarakatuh in the Name of Allah, we issue this heartfelt plea to every Muslim husband, Muslim wife, Muslim parent and Muslim in-law. Broken marriages: The tsunami of broken …
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